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You
今日のお洋服、とてもお似合いですね。
きょうのおようふく、とてもおにあいですね。
That outfit really suits you beautifully today.
Romaji: Kyō no oyōfuku, totemo oniai desu ne. / Reply Romaji: Ara, arigatō! Kore mukashi kara sukide ne.
Reply
あら、ありがとう！これ昔から好きで。
あら、ありがとう！これむかしからすきで。
Oh, thank you! I've always loved this one.
Gesture & etiquette
Make genuine eye contact with the clothing before speaking — your attentiveness proves you truly noticed; a warm, unhurried smile communicates sincerity; follow up with 'どこで買われたんですか？' (Where did you get it?) if they seem pleased.
Complimenting clothing or accessories often unlocks stories about travel, family gifts, or meaningful occasions — the item's origin is frequently as interesting as the item itself. Using 'お似合いです' (it suits you / you look great in it) is warmer and more personal than 'きれいです' (it's beautiful), which comments on the object rather than the person.