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これまでの人生で、一番誇りに思っていることってどんなことですか？
これまでのじんせいで、いちばんほこりにおもっていることってどんなことですか？
Of everything in your life so far, what are you most proud of?
Romaji: Koremade no jinsei de, ichiban hokori ni omotte iru koto tte donna koto desu ka? / Reply Romaji: Sou desu nee... musuko wo rippa ni sodateta koto deshiyo ka ne.
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そうですねえ…息子をりっぱに育てたことでしょうかね。
そうですねえ…むすこをりっぱにそだてたことでしょうかね。
Let me see... perhaps raising my son to be a fine person.
Gesture & etiquette
Create a moment of stillness before asking — this signals the question deserves thought, not a quick answer. When they respond, make affirming sounds (「そうですか」「素晴らしいですね」) that validate the significance of what they've shared.
Asking about life achievements is a deeply affirming question — it communicates that the person's life story has value and meaning. Unlike questions about hobbies or preferences, this invites deep reflection on identity and accomplishment. Listen without interrupting; the answer often takes time to arrive.