Friendly to Senior
Care · Conversation
どんなお仕事をされていたんですか？やりがいはありましたか？ — What kind of work did you do? Did you find it fulfilling? (Care · Conversation, Friendly to Senior, JLPT N4)
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どんなお仕事をされていたんですか？やりがいはありましたか？
どんなおしごとをされていたんですか？やりがいはありましたか？
What kind of work did you do? Did you find it fulfilling?
Romaji: Donna oshigoto wo sarete ita n desu ka? Yarigai wa arimashita ka? / Reply Romaji: Daiku deshita. Jibun de tateta ie ga ima demo nokotte iru n desu yo.
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大工でした。自分で建てた家が今でも残っているんですよ。
だいくでした。じぶんでたてたいえがいまでものこっているんですよ。
I was a carpenter. The houses I built are still standing today.
Gesture & etiquette
Show genuine admiration when they describe their profession; exclaim 'すごいですね！' (amazing!) at appropriate moments to validate their accomplishments; many seniors worked in skilled trades or industries that deserve real respect.
やりがい' (yarigai = sense of fulfillment / purpose) is an important concept in Japanese work culture — asking about it rather than just 'what did you do?' shows you value the emotional dimension of their work; many seniors feel pride in their careers and this question unlocks positive self-expression.