〇〇さんはどんな音楽がお好きですか？昔よくお聞きになっていた曲はありますか？ — What kind of music do you enjoy, [Name]? Are there any songs you used to listen to a lot? (Care · Conversation, Friendly to Senior, JLPT N4)

Gesture & etiquette

If possible, offer to play the music they mention — this simple gesture transforms conversation into a multisensory experience. Gently hum along or tap the rhythm to show genuine enjoyment. Music activities can continue after the conversation naturally ends.

Music memory is remarkably preserved throughout life. Asking about a specific era (「昔よく聞いていた」) rather than just current preferences often unlocks richer, more emotional responses. Music-based conversation is especially powerful for building emotional connection in care settings.