Friendly to Senior
Care · Daily · Support
少し髪を整えましょうか。どのようにしたいですか？ — Shall we tidy up your hair a bit? How would you like it? (Care · Daily · Support, Friendly to Senior, JLPT N4)
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少し髪を整えましょうか。どのようにしたいですか？
すこしかみをととのえましょうか。どのようにしたいですか？
Shall we tidy up your hair a bit? How would you like it?
Romaji: Sukoshi kami wo totonoemasho ka. Dono yo ni shitai desu ka? / Reply Romaji: Itsumo no yo ni shite kudasai.
Reply
いつもの様にしてください。
いつものようにしてください。
Please do it the way you usually do.
Gesture & etiquette
Show the comb or brush before beginning. Work gently, starting from the front and working toward the back. Have a mirror available so the senior can see and guide the process. Comment naturally: 'Kirei ni narimashita ne' (Looking lovely).
Asking how the senior wants their hair styled, rather than deciding for them, preserves personal agency and dignity. Hair and appearance are deeply tied to identity and self-worth. Taking care over grooming — even for a quiet day at home — signals that the senior's self-presentation matters.