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お盆にはお墓参りをして、ご先祖様に手を合わせてお参りするんですよ。
おぼんにはおはかまいりをして、ごせんぞさまにてをあわせておまいりするんですよ。
During Obon, people visit the family grave and offer prayers with palms pressed together to honor their ancestors.
Romaji: O-bon ni wa o-haka-mairi wo shite, go-senzo-sama ni te wo awasete o-mairi suru n desu yo. / Reply Romaji: Suteki na fushuu desu ne. Doko no o-haka ni iku n desu ka?
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素敵な風習ですね。どこのお墓に行くんですか？
すてきなふうしゅうですね。どこのおはかにいくんですか？
What a beautiful tradition. Where is your family grave?
Gesture & etiquette
A respectful, contemplative tone when explaining this — it's a connection to death and ancestors, which requires gentle handling across cultures. If a foreign visitor asks to join, confirm they're comfortable with the ritual in advance.
お墓参り (ohaka-mairi) is a solemn and beloved tradition. Visitors clean the gravestone, light incense, place flowers, pour water on the stone, and press their palms together in prayer. It is a quiet, reflective ritual rather than a somber occasion — families often go together and it can be a moment of warmth and storytelling about the ancestors.