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日本では沈黙は必ずしも気まずいわけじゃなくて、考えてる証拠なんですよ。
にほんではちんもくはかならずしもきまずいわけじゃなくて、かんがえてるしょうこなんですよ。
In Japan, silence isn't necessarily awkward — it's a sign that someone is thinking things through.
Romaji: Nihon dewa chinmoku wa kanarazu shimo kimazui wake ja nakute, kangaeteru shouko na n desu yo. / Reply Romaji: Naru hodo! Dakara minna amari hanasanai n da ne.
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なるほど！だからみんなあまり話さないんだね。
なるほど！だからみんなあまりはなさないんだね。
I see! That's why people don't talk as much.
Gesture & etiquette
When sharing this insight, maintain a relaxed, reflective expression. Let a natural pause follow your explanation — modeling the very concept you're describing.
Japanese communication tends to value 「間」(ma — meaningful pause/silence), unlike many Western conversational styles where silence signals discomfort. Filling every pause with talking can feel disruptive. Learn to sit comfortably in silence — it often signals trust and depth in the relationship.