Casual — to friend
Cultural · Communication
You
最近お顔を見なかったので、少し心配していました。お元気でしたか？
さいきんおかおをみなかったので、すこししんぱいしていました。おげんきでしたか？
I haven't seen you recently and was a little worried. Have you been well?
Romaji: Saikin okao wo minakatta no de, sukoshi shinpai shite imashita. Ogenki deshita ka? / Reply Romaji: Arigatou. Chotto isogashikute ne. Shinpai kakete gomen ne.
Reply
ありがとう。ちょっと忙しくてね。心配かけてごめんね。
ありがとう。ちょっといそがしくてね。しんぱいかけてごめんね。
Thank you. I've just been a bit busy. Sorry for worrying you.
Gesture & etiquette
Use a genuinely warm and slightly relieved tone — you are expressing that their reappearance has put your mind at rest. Make comfortable eye contact. This is an appropriate moment for a light touch on the arm or shoulder if you have a close friendship. Follow up with an invitation: 'Jikan ga areba, mata hanashimashiyou' (Let's catch up when you have time).
In Japanese culture, expressing concern for a friend's absence ('shinpai shite imashita' — I was worried) is a powerful way to communicate that they were missed and valued. It is more emotionally resonant than simply 'I haven't seen you' — it signals active caring. This kind of expressed concern deepens friendships in a culturally authentic way.